
“A good story is always a healing ceremony. We recuperate, re-member, and rejuvenate those we storytell into the world. »
Joshua Whitehead, Jonny Appleseed
(Hi)Stories as Ceremonial Memories
Literature: A House of Healing for the Soul
Bibliotherapy is a form of creative arts therapy that uses storytelling and literature to help people connect with themselves and understand their own life stories in relation to the stories and narratives they encounter. When we connect with the life stories of those who came before us, or who have lived similar life experiences as us, our soul experiences both comfort and healing.
Ramses II, one of the celebrated ancestral kings of Kemet, reportedly described his library as the « house of healing for the soul. » Across time, ancestral traditions have always centered both oral and written stories as medicinal stories that facilitate self-awareness, self-reflection, growth, and restorative insight. These stories act not only as guides but as living medicine—helping us reconnect with forgotten or wounded parts of ourselves, and bringing insight where there was once confusion or pain.
Bibliotherapy invites us to engage with narratives that echo our inner experiences, that reveal what we didn’t know we knew, and that help us re-member our selves. As we immerse ourselves in these forgotten stories of ourselves, our ancestors, and our traditions, we begin to reclaim lost fragments of our identity and agency. When we choose to read consciously, it means we do not read to escape our lives. Rather, we read other people’s stories in order to engage more deeply with our own lives, our own stories, and the stories of all humankind.
Stories and Archetypal Roles
When you consider your life story as a script or scenario you co-write with those around you, you begin to see the role each person plays in your script and the role you play in theirs. All stories and scripts contain elements of human archetypal forces, principles, and roles that speak to the universal complexities of the human existence. These archetypes—the hero(ine), the guide, the gatekeeper, the victim, the persecutor, the antagonist, the savior, among others—illustrate the wide range of thoughts, behaviours, and emotional patterns we inhabit in various contexts. We often get stuck in roles other people have cast us into within their scripts, thus losing sight of the role we want to play in our own scripts. We become so engrossed and invested in the roles we take on that we remain unconscious of the overarching script in which we are confined. Other times, we cast others into roles that do not serve them, or we cast the wrong people in the wrong roles in our scripts, or we allow harmful agents to take on roles in our scripts that ultimately undermine our agency and power to shape our own lives.
These roles do not remain static—they shift and evolve—but when we do not reflect consciously on them, we may find ourselves trapped in familiar patterns. For instance, someone who has always played the role of “savior” may unconsciously feel compelled to “save” others in every context they encounter. This recurring pattern, when left unexamined, can have far-reaching consequences on their life story, depending on the people they surround themselves with and those they attempt to “save.”
Because many of us are cast in pre-determine roles at a very young age, we often struggle to differentiate and separate ourselves from these roles that feel so familiar and deeply intertwined with our “sense of self.” We may even confuse them with our core identity. We may believe we are the savior, or the victim, or the antagonist, without realizing that these roles were assigned to us, not chosen by us. So, it takes deep introspection and conscious awareness to recognize these roles and to redefine our “authentic self.” We need courage to deconstruct our stories this deeply, to cast ourselves in different roles, and to step into new narratives that reflect our truest values and deepest callings.
Reflection Exercises
- What is a story (your own or someone else’s) that has already helped you heal?
- What did it allow you to re-member—that is, to reassemble, to recover, and to reconnect within yourself? What forgotten or wounded pieces of your soul did this story help you acknowledge and restore?
- Which archetypal role do you most often play in your life (savior, victim, hero(ine), guide, etc.)?
- Did you choose this role consciously, or did someone impose it on you within their own story?
- Which role would you like to rewrite for yourself, and why?
- Are there people in your life who currently play harmful roles in your story?
- What narratives do they project onto you?
- What do you need to say or do in order to reclaim agency over your own life script?
- What stories have you inherited from your family, your culture, or your traditions?
- Which ones uplift and support you? Which ones limit or constrain you?
- How can you honor your ancestral legacy while rewriting a story that aligns more closely with your “authentic self”?
- If you created your own “house of healing for the soul,” what would it look like? What books, stories, songs, folktales, or memories would you place there to help you heal, re-member, and restore yourself?
